“Numinous”
By
Jeffrey
McAndrew
Father Nathan
Simone was all alone in his office. There was not a sound. He sat quietly and pensively as he replayed
the highlights of his recent sermon in his mind. Alone with his inner-most thoughts, he wondered
if what he was saying was really resonating with the flock or whether he was
just playing a game. The sermon was
entitled: “Knowing Jesus in Our Life.” During his 23-minute talk, he saw a lot of
nodding heads and affirming glances. He
saw those every Sunday, but were the people really on his side? Were they perhaps playing roles because they
were socially acceptable? Did the pastor
intimately know Jesus or was he just playing a part? Was he this magic medium to the Lord or was
he delusional? These were the questions that Nathan allowed
in his mind from time to time and he felt a little guilty allowing them
in.
A lot of good
and decent people attend the church services. Mrs. Irma Gladstein appeared to be one of
those kinds of people. She had come up
to him after the sermon talking about how she was so inspired by words “hope,” “love” and “faith.” Irma behaved like a gentle person and lived
her life with a quiet confidence, hopeful that there was a good God out there
looking out after her. By the way, it
was the older crowd that seemed to give the most compliments on the pastor’s
sermons. Nathan kept pondering the offering
of more interesting titles for the sermons like: “Balancing Our Human Needs” or “The
Psychology of Belief” or “What TV teaches about God” or “Is It Wrong to Like
Dr. Wayne Dyer?” Perhaps those titles would lead him astray
from the safe and politically correct path. In his life, he had always chosen the safest
path. If he wasn’t careful, he could be
let himself be badgered by the extreme right. That appeared to be his Achilles Heel.
The good
pastor was certain he had to freshen up the church experience dramatically
someway. He was getting increasingly
anxious about keeping everyone’s interest. The church was losing about 5 members per
month and the relatively small congregation of 350 couldn’t afford such a loss.
There were less and less children
showing up for church. There is a point in the service where the children come
up and share with the pastor. On many
Sundays, there were no children. What
was it that convinced some that church was such a bad experience for their
families? There were times when the
pastor felt personally insulted by this, that some had lost faith in something
bigger than themselves. He was afraid
for people rejecting church and in its place absorbing this vast and
exponentially scary conflagration of nothingness, this existential confusion
that he was most apprehensive about.
The pastor sometimes feared anyone going to hell, a place he believed in
publicly, but he had his doubts privately.
The pastor’s thoughts were swirling around in
his head. He found it harder to
concentrate lately. Maybe he needed to
add more of a sense of humor in his sermons, he contemplated. Maybe there were other opinion leaders in the
church who were gravitating away and subtly leading the flock away from the
shepherd. He felt like he had to keep his vulnerable and
impressionable flock away from bad beliefs. When he started his work as a minister in the
1990’s he didn’t think that such angst and confusion would be part of the
job. He secretly wished he could be rescued from
this anxiety and gently led to a more innocent kind of insouciance. Right
now the church life was taking on a sort of protean manifestation, something
always changing and something hard to grasp in its entire context.
On the
pastor’s mind to a great degree also was the increasing pressure to move out of
the awe inspiring architecture of the 115 year-old church which was recently
placed on the city of Winston, Wisconsin’s List of Historical Places. The masses of the congregation were clamoring
for a new place which was handicapped accessible. Some were perhaps in the mood for a fresh
change. There was another smaller group
of church members who urged that improvements at the downtown site would be the
best move. The pastor felt this friction
as something that could be detrimental to the long term unity of the members. The restive thoughts weighed heavily on his
conscience, tearing away at him like a cat playing with a worn out toy. The numerous gray hairs on his head were perhaps
a reminder of the stress of trying to please most of the people most of the
time. This was another Achilles Heel,
trying to make everybody happy even when his logic told him he could not.
On
the top of the pastor’s desk was a copy of a book which investigated a cult whose
members thought the world was going to end.
When the world did not end on a specified date the group did not
disband. (The pastor found this
interesting while some of the members of his flock would not find it
appealing.) The group was miraculously
able to stay together, apparently rationalizing elements of thought that
presented a large degree of cognitive dissonance. The pastor would wonder if there is any
connection with religious thought and how people would hang on to these kinds
of beliefs for dear life. The book’s theory could explain why smokers
kept on smoking even though they knew it caused lung cancer. If the individual’s self-concept is
threatened enough the person would rather rationalize rather than be rational. The book was a present from a friend of his
named Dr. Andrew Lippert. He had seen
the psychiatrist for counseling after his difficult divorce from his first wife(Leann)
in the mid-1980’s. LeAnn
was very religious, far-right and acted like Sarah Palin many times. She was openly religious but her mind was
probably full of contradictions. How
intellectually honest is religion? LeAnn would probably still not have a good
answer to that one.
The old sturdy church was
perfectly quiet except for some squeaking and scrubbing sounds emanating down
the hallway near the prayer room.
Johnny Cranston was the maintenance guy who was just starting his Sunday
afternoon cleaning regimen. The pastor
knew Johnny to have a fine and generous heart.
Johnny was a real person. He was
the father of five children and lived in the “rough” part of town. He was one of Nathan’s unsung heroes
because of what the pastor saw as his simple ways and caring nature. Johnny played guitar and would sing every year
at the church’s “Thanksgiving Dinner for the Homeless. “ Once when he had found out that a teen-aged
girl from Winston had been abducted and done away with by a serial killer from
Wichita, he was the first one to start a fundraiser to help the family of the
girl. He also wrote a controversial letter
to the Wichita paper stating that we should have compassion for Dennis
Pragerson’s family too. Cranston, a simple man, was not afraid to speak
his mind on the important issues, because he knew life was too short to be
wishy-washy. He wasn’t afraid of controversy if he was
speaking from his heart.
Johnny would tell the pastor how
he should go more “hard line on the sermons.”
Johnny would urge the pastor to talk more daringly about love. Also he would also attempt to cheer up Pastor
Nathan once in awhile by reciting David Letterman’s Top-Ten List or telling a semi-clean
joke.
Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over
all wrongs.
Proverbs 10-12
Pastor Nathan respected Johnny’s
positive nature and it gave him great faith in human kind. It sometimes helped motivate him in his
sermons. He would end all sermons
with “Remember God loves you and so do
I.” He would quote Kahil Gibran quite often in
his sermons but some of the church members thought it was a little
excessive. Sometimes the sermons would
have quite an international flavor.
Pastor could feel the poignant pressure, the ubiquitous force to speak
the will of God, but also felt the pressure to be safe and within the bounds of
political correctness. What a trapeze
act, a fine line to walk sometimes! As
long as the sermons were about love what was the worry about?
When you love you should not say, “God is in my
heart,” but rather, “I am in the heart of God.”
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds
you worthy, directs your course.
The Bible
One of the African American
members of the Congregation
gave the pastor a painting once entitled
“The Beauty of Truth.” The
multi-colored painting showed a group of people with multifarious cultural
heritages singing with great energy. It
took Shonte Robinson a month to complete.
Pastor Nathan displayed this captivating picture behind his desk in his
church office next to a poster which stated the ELCA mission of the Stephen
Ministry.
On top of his desk was a copy of
a book “To Love and To Be Loved” by Sam Keen and a paper from an old college
friend named Robert John Collins. The
paper investigated the philosophy of Immanuel Kant and how it contrasts with
the ideas of Christianity. There was a
poster on the wall of Martin Luther King Junior showing the orator in the midst
of compassionate oratory during the “I Have a Dream” speech in Washington, with
the caption that read, “What are you teaching your children?” On a
small book shelf near the east corner of the room was “The Prophet” by Kahlil
Gibran. This was one of his favorite
books. On the bottom of the shelf lay more heavy
hitters like Camus, Socrates, Kafka and Des Cartes. The
middle rack contained books by one of his favorite nature writers Margaret
Lathrop and by psychiatrist Dr. Andrew Lippert. He loved when Lathrop would talk about “the glorious beauty of God’s blessed world”
and about her sacred walks through nearby Hobbs Woods.
Lippert had written two books
about autistic savants and had many followers at his webite called: www.drlippert.com . There
were also a whole host of motivational books on the shelf as well, including
books by Dr. Wayne Dyer, Leo Buscaglia, Brian Tracy and Denis Waitley. The pastor credited the writings of Keen,
Gibran, Waitley and Dyer for getting him through very tough parts of his life
in his early 20’s when he was married to Leann who had some severe emotional
problems. A friend also stepped in and
talked some sense into him and the marriage ended before the couple had
children after 11 months. Reading helped him sort his many, many
thoughts out during this disturbing, disorienting and confusing period. He also liked a recent book called “Tolstoy
in the Purple Chair” about a woman who read a book every day for a year. The book gave some great anecdotal evidence
for the power of bibliotherapy.
We need the books that affect us like a disaster,
that grieve us deeply, like the death of someone we loved more than ourselves ,
like being banished into forests far from everyone, like a suicide. A book must be the ax for the frozen sea
inside us.
Franz Kafka
On the east wall of the pastor’s
office was a poster with a beautiful ocean sunset, with a poem of Mary Oliver’s
superimposed over the scene:
MYSTERIES, YES
Truly, we live with
mysteries too marvelous
to be understood.
How grass can be
nourishing in the
mouths of the lambs.
How rivers and stones are
forever
in alliance with gravity
while we ourselves dream
of rising.
How two hands touch and
the bonds
will never be broken.
How people come, from
delight or the
scars of damage,
to the comfort of a poem.
Let me keep my distance,
always, from those
who think they have the
answers.
Let me keep company always
with those who say
"Look!" and
laugh in astonishment,
and bow their heads.
Sometimes the weight of the
world would seem to fall down upon Pastor Nathan. He would counsel people addicted to alcohol,
people with bad marriages, folks on the cusp of financial disaster, people who
hurt the ones they love and people with a spiritual malaise of some kind. He
would call it a sense of spiritual ennui.
Such a variety of concerns, and
such intense pressure to do the right thing…this would cause the pastor to stay
awake at nights. He wasn’t always sure
he was doing the right thing or saying the right thing, but he tried to learn
from his mistakes. He would pray to himself for God to grant him
the ability to always see beauty and truth and to show him the right way in
life.
Beauty is not an image you would see nor a song
you would hear, but rather an image you see though you close your eyes and a
song you hear though you shut your ears.
Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror.
It
was Saturday and Pastor Nathan was wondering how he could make his sermons more
modern. He sometimes found himself even
searching Youtube for sermons, and looking at what his favorite political
heroes were saying. He found the famous
RFK speech following Martin Luther King Junior’s death very, very
inspiring. Hope is the belief that
suffering may have a higher purpose and surely Robert F. Kennedy and MLK were stronger in death than they were in
life. There were so many people
suffering in his congregation that he sometimes he felt like Holden Caulfield
in “The Catcher in the Rye.” With much clarity, courage and compassion,
the pastor was like a shepherd helping to steer a suffering flock in the right
direction. He was there for the express
purpose of keeping them from falling over the edge of the cliff. Sometimes he felt thoroughly unequipped to
deal with people suffering in bad marriages, to minister to those who have lost
loved ones, to those who feel lost in general, or to those who have been shocked by loved
ones who after all these years say they don’t love them in return. He would talk to people about how they might
learn from the pain and how God may be speaking through difficult
situations. He was good at using his
comforting voice to get people to feel more comfortable with their life
challenges and issues.
3 Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek,
for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful,
for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek,
for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful,
for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 5:3-12
There must be some meaning to
this suffering in the real world, thought the middle-aged pastor. There
is so much pain out there. People need
to understand their lives in a much greater context. It was almost too much pressure for a 51
year-old minister to face. A lot of
courage needs to be conjured up and received from somewhere. All these suffering people, with no apparent
resolutions to their inner angst, family conflicts, and we are all left to
wonder about. It seemed like there were
too many questions. Where does this power of love come from? The Bible told him it was Jesus and God, but
in his darkest moments he was not sure what the answers were.
Pastor Nathan’s day was busy,
and Thanksgiving was coming up soon. His
church was responsible for feeding nearly 500 economically disadvantaged
members of the community on that day. He
had volunteer coordinators at church but he was the guy who had to ensure that
everything was done right and on time. Things would fall apart if he wasn’t checking
in with the coordinators all of the time.
During Thanksgiving weekend he
would also balance his family needs with the needs of his congregation. He would be celebrating Saturday with his
brother William and family at a small town called Tines in southern Wisconsin. What made this meeting so interesting was
that most of William’s family were agnostics or atheists. So far there were no protracted arguments at
holidays which would put people at odds.
Everyone had to be very careful not to offend. William, a very sensitive man, one year
younger than Nathan, is a lawyer with
his own small office on the town’s Main Street.
He handles many different kinds of cases and people in town respect him
for his great objectivity, compassion and skill. His religion (or lack of it) doesn’t come up
as a topic of conversation very often. The
respect people have for him appears to be just too great to bring religion into
the picture. People tend to look the
other way.
The pastor had to prepare for a
funeral on Monday. A faithful member of
the flock, Suzanne Mann, had passed away Friday at her home after a bitter
battle with pancreatic cancer. Suzanne
was a member of the Winston Bird Club and a neighborhood bridge club. Unlike her husband, she was a liberal
democrat who watched a lot of MSNBC. Her
husband would vote Republican in close to 100-percent of elections. Her
husband Victor was a small business owner and avid hunter who was excited about
concealed carry becoming law next week on November 2nd. He
was almost a polar opposite of pastor and his liberal instincts. The pastor once had a nightmare that Mr. Mann
charged the podium and shot him calling him “liberal slime.” Victor Mann made the pastor nervous, maybe
for a good reason. Pastor had also
heard that Mr. Mann making inappropriate comments to some of his female
employees and had been to court for two cases because of these issues. He was never charged with anything, but most
in the neighborhood knew he ran is mouth off with sexist comments too often. Many also suspected Victor of spray painting
anti-Muslim sayings on the wall of the public library shortly after 9-11. No one was arrested. The library director was given police
protection for a couple of weeks after the incident mainly because of some of
the harsh words left in a letter. Six-foot,
six inches tall, and barrel-chested, and sporting a 1940’s style crew cut,
Victor was quite an intimidating physical presence. He was
also a devoted member of The Tea Party.
On the front of the church
leaflet dedicated to Suzanne was the Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi. The pastor liked this one and recommended it
at most funerals. According to Pastor
Nathan, this prayer has a lot to say about seeing most any situation in a
positive manner.
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury,pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury,pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Pastor felt compelled to keep an error-free service as he
knew Victor would be upset if anything was missed or out of order. It was times like these that made Pastor
nervous about the details. Nathan would
rehearse the steps of this one a little more than most services. There
were so many hoops to go through to ensure that every step was followed
perfectly. He was growing tired of this
punctiliousness, this meticulousness that was worshipped perhaps too much in
religion. Why does everything have to be
so perfect? Shouldn’t the general
direction and the meaning of the service be more important than all details
being 100-percent correct? Pastor
Nathan firmly believed that religion was on a higher rung than politics. He was afraid of the vituperative nature of
politics and was certain there was a kindness to religion that couldn’t be broken
by modern society. Lately
the pastor had overdosed on MSNBC . For
some reason Martin Bashir was starting to make him angry lately. He couldn’t explain why.
On the schedule today was a
meeting with the cantankerous Willy Sunder.
Sunder enjoyed questioning the pastor on deep philosophical
questions. He was the town humanist who
prided himself on getting the last word, more importantly for him, the last
rhetorical question. He would write
these letters to the editor that fully explained his scientific and
non-spiritual views. Many people in
town thought he was a “nutbag.” There
was a knock on the door. Sunder was 20minutes
early. Pastor Nathan let go of his
notepad and rose to greet the Sunder’s large warm hand.
“I was in the neighborhood and
realized we were meeting today. I hope
you don’t mind that I’m a little early.”
Willy continued, “Pastor, you look like you
could use another cup of Folgers.”
Nathan replied, “I think so, it’s been a long week!”
Willy says, “I’m here to
challenge you with all of my silly questions pastor!” “I would expect nothing less,” retorted Pastor Nathan. “What’s on your mind? How are Lilly and the kids?” “Great!
Lilly’s a little bossy, but I love her with all my heart.”
Willy starts in. “I’ve come here
to express doubts. How can there be a
supreme being who hears all of our thoughts?
How can there be a supernatural
being who knows all of my dreams, all of my intentions, all of my dark
secrets, all the sins I’ve committed?”
“It still seems impossible.”
Pastor Nathan replied, “I think
that faith requires an extra level of trust, trust that there is a
caring and guiding force that can help us along the way, can aid us when we need
extra support, something which adds meaning in difficult times.”
“How could a God exist when he
let my Uncle Charlie die? He just
started passing out and his friend Cal would find him on the bathroom
floor.” He went through some very
frustrating time in the nursing home before he died. He was totally helpless at the end. It was tough to see. He would order his best friends and relatives
out of the room. My father thought it
was because he was paranoid, but I don’t think that wanted people to see him in
that weakened state. Why does God make
the end of life painful for some more than others? I just don’t get it.”
Pastor chimes in, “I don’t know, but only God
knows the way and we just have to take the leap of faith and trust in him. We are not alone because Christ’s love is
with us all of the time. All we have to
do is relax and turn to Christ’s love and we’ll be fine. People don’t realize how easy it is to turn
to a life of love and peace.” “For
those who believe in Christ, he is a strong influence, for those who doubt, he is
harder to find. We must be looking for
God in order to find God. It is that
simple.”
Sunder was a member of the
Saturday morning Bible study, headed by lay minister Tim Reeble. Tim found God when he recovered from alcohol
and drug abuse. He lost his wife and
family and then started burglarizing liquor stores before being caught. He was ordered into treatment at Wilde
House for 90 days and he said it changed
his life when he experienced the loving touch of Jesus. He said it was quite a revelation that he was
living his life incorrectly for the first 15-thousand 439 days of his
life. Sunder admired Reeble’s quiet
courage and fortitude. Reeble was also a
success story because only about 10-percent of the addicts admitted to Wilde
House were able to succeed.
“Where’s God for the 90-percent
of the people who go back and start drinking after being admitted to
treatment?” Willy continues, “Tim’s a success story for
sure, but who is looking out for the rest of them?” Pastor replies, “I don’t know, but I do know
that God works at his own pace and in his own mysterious ways. God will test us but will probably let us do
most of the work.”
“I’ve been reading Richard Dawkins,
Christopher Hitchens and Sam Harris lately and it seems there is a logical
reason for religion, but in some sense it is outdated. It’s like this friendly anachronism. People need to create their own forms of
spirituality that will fit better with realities of the modern times. It is difficult to take the leap of faith
because I don’t want to assume anything about what I don’t understand. What about your autistic son? Do you think God brought him on Earth and
made a lesson for you? Do think there is a reason for your son Will
who has a mental age of one or two? He
is fifteen and still cannot toilet himself appropriately. Is there a lesson from God from this or is it
just random? I don’t mean to be mean or
inappropriate, but how does you spirituality help you or hinder you in the
understanding of this?”
Willy continues, “Look at quantum mechanics, how does that
relate to the extinct language of the Bible?
We need radical new ways to be spiritual. Science gives us new ways of thinking and
looking at the world. It seems to me
that there need to be changes, radical changes in the way we worship. There is a question whether or not we need
religion at all. Hitchens would argue
that religion poisons everything, that
it is a subtly pernicious element and a lower form of thinking that is in the
end harmful. How do you counsel someone
like me? Am I too tough to handle?”
Pastor Nathan takes a very deep breath and looks at Willy. He was wondering if it was ever fair to bring
up his son Will who had to be placed in a group home at the age of 12. Willy sits back in his chair in a
semi-defensive posture, like a lawyer ready for the judge to read the results
at trial. “I think your questions are
good and you are asking questions that challenge your faith. Faith is not something that can be
categorized or labeled. It cannot be
strictly defined. It cannot be pigeon
holed into a precise scientific certainty.
Much of what drives faith is the tension between certainty and
uncertainty. Taking the leap of faith is
a way to dedicate oneself to something bigger than oneself. Even though we are not sure what that is, it
is our intuitive, creative side that needs to help us out here. Using a scientific analogy, physicists do not know how big the universe
is and struggle with the concept of infinity.
Religion says there is a bigger answer that we cannot define and that it
is OK to live with the questions.”
Willy quips, “I respectfully
disagree. I think religion has all these
rules that cut off curiosity. They have
ready-made answers for the ignorant, so that those who are not informed can
bask in the false light of false answers.
That’s how I see it.” Pastor
Nathan responds, “A lot of atheists look at religion and see it as inane
conformity adding up to nothing, an extinct form of thinking that leads to
irrational and silly conclusions.
However, when looking at it from an individualistic point of view, Jesus was radically positive when it came to
standing up for morality. What makes
Jesus interesting is the tension caused by Jesus’s creative non-conformist
stand. They didn’t believe him and so
they killed him, when in fact he was all about forgiveness and seeing the good
in everyone. The crucifixion is the
ultimate in irony. How interesting is it
to you that someone may have died for your sins?”
Willy jumps in, “I don’t see why
someone has to go up on a cross and die a painful death just to make a
point. Christ could have expressed his
passion in civil discourse and not rocking the boat so much. It could be argued that Christ was delusional
and would be classified as mentally ill in this day and age. There are a couple people in almost every
mental hospital in the United States who think they are Christ. This megalomania is not healthy and if
Christianity drives some to mental illness it is not a smart long-term
direction to be going in.”
The pastor with a more concerned
look continues, “Again, it is a poignantly personal journey we embark on when
we decide to give it all the Jesus. We
shed the skin of our old selves and we become new again. We become new men as C.S. Lewis once
said. We are brand new because we are
profoundly touched by the love and profound care of Christ. Much of the Bible speaks in analogies. It is not literal and those who cannot
understand it most of the time take it to literally and then turn around and
demonize the entire book. It’s all
about your personal spiritual journey and what ‘float s your boat.’ If secularism is enough for you fine…but
consider what you may or would be leaving out of your world view. “
Willy possibly feigning looking
more student-like, “I understand you
want to have me consider the entire picture, but I cannot get out of my mind
that religion is hiding its head in the sand because it is afraid. Science is not afraid of the questions. Science is the poetry of reality. It thrives on reality. I know that religion helps people but is it
reinforcing ignorance instead of truth?
I don’t buy this whole thing of there being a celestial parent in the
sky who knows all of our thoughts.
There is no evidence to suggest that this is even close to being true. Christianity
is a failed mythology that serves no purpose other than to justify horrible
wars, make people feel false importance and superior, and help warped and
unscrupulous people make tons of cash. ”
The pastor chimes in, “The
author you like, Chris Hitchens, is
pretty impressed with himself. I’m concerned that Hitch is not the best role
model. I’ve seen him io Youtube videos
being very cruel to folks who are religious. He definitely rides his high
horse.”
It
was a 47-minute visit with Willy. Usually his sessions were longer, but for
some reason Nathan had learned to tolerate them. They were interesting because there were
topics with Willy that would never come up in the church socials, coffee
clutches, and Christian book club meetings.
His talks with Willy were almost a guilty pleasure and he once had a
dream that God struck him dead from a lightning bolt after a one of his
God/anti-God talks with Willy. He felt
guilty about thinking about atheism for too long. The church could supply the answers and why
step out into the woods to ask the questions all over again? Talking with Willy made the pastor feel
humble and out of his comfort zone.
Maybe more growth was possible outside of that zone.
Pastor Nathan felt like his life
was meaningful but the politics of the church was starting to drag him
down. There was such a pressure to
build, build, build. There were
committees on top of committees,
schedules , and important people to meet because they were wealthy and
contributors to the church. In his
private thoughts, Nathan felt bad that church was too much about money and not
enough about people. He thought about
the history of the church over the past hundreds of years and how he had read
about the religion’s efforts to stifle free inquiry. There was something wrong about pouring over
an ancient book and pretending that the words were holy and true after so many
years.
He had
many private thoughts that people would be shocked about if they knew. It was like Sigmund Freud’s Id that needed
to be guarded constantly. These private
thoughts also told him sometimes that the universe could be a gigantic pile of
nothingness, complete randomness without a creator. He was afraid to think about the horrible
nothingness without a supreme being, without these fables to protect him,
without Mommy and Daddy in the sky. How could it be? How could Nathan hold two such opposite
thoughts, juxtaposed in one brain? Part
of his mind thought faith is salvation and part of his mind was beginning to
believe that science, reason and compassion was the true candle in the
darkness.
What
about miracles? Willy didn’t believe in
them, and neither did his brother William, a big Richard Dawkins fan. Pastor Nathan was most fascinated with what
writer Margaret Lathrop said about miracles, that just our existence is a
miracle. The fact that the natural world
could be such a fascinating puzzle with everything from atoms to black holes was what convinced
Margaret that there was so much more.
She felt that the ebullience and magnificent beauty of the universe was
the best evidence for miracles. It was
the concept of miracles but not in the way most theologians perceived it. It was miracles minus the many rules of
organized religion. Nathan once read a
book by Richard Dawkins but would never admit to the congregation members he
did.
Pastor
Nathan was also fascinated with some of the smartest authors and speakers. He noticed on line that there was a list of
the top public intellectuals. They
included some names that many people in his congregation would call libs. Names like Paul Krugman, Al Gore, Noah Chomsky, Peter Singer, Daniel
Dennett, Steven Pinker, Richard Posner, Naomi
Klein, Camille Paglia and Christopher Hitchens came up on that list. He felt a little humbled by these scholars,
but felt troubled that many were atheists.
Dennett would call himself a freethinker. Pastor thought “freethinker” may be going
overboard politically, but was deeply troubled by the cognitive dissonance
caused by thinking such thoughts. Here
he was in a free country, but feeling troubled by thinking these forbidden
thoughts. Something did not make
sense. Not enough about the world made
sense. He was 51 and still having
thoughts like this.
It was
a week later now in the month of December of 2011. Pastor was exiting his light green Prius and
stepping into the parking lot. He saw a
note half frozen in the snow and ice near one of his snow tires. It was handwritten and appeared to include
some bullet points and signatures. It
was ominous from the start as it contained much of the writing in red. The
half-crumpled piece of notepaper contained bullet points :
·
Pastor has humanistic tendencies which are dangerous
for the future of the church. He listens
to indie bands like “The National” and “Comsat Angels” on his Walkman. He has freethinking tendencies. He is ultimately dangerous.
·
Pastor had a failed marriage 20 years ago which
does not model a positive lifestyle.
·
Pastor is overly empathetic with gay and lesbian
issues and was seen protesting at several LGBT demonstrations. This is totally unacceptable. He MUST live within the politically correct
rules of the church.
·
Pastor does not mention enough from scripture,
seems to follow his own rules too much during sermons. His touchy-feely love stuff doesn’t do
anything for our more serious members.
·
Some sermons contain inappropriate material such
as quotes from non-believers like Christopher Hitchens and Richard
Dawkins. One of his Bible studies
centered on the universe and Carl Sagan.
All members of this church do not believe in evolution or this outer
space stuff. There is no concrete
evidence that the Earth is more than 10-thousand years old. Someone
must have created us. Evolution does not
make sense. How can non-life spring to
life? Pastor Nathan’s attitude is that of a doubter,
not a positive person with hope and faith and that is quite sad and
unfortunate.
Special committee needs to vote at secret meeting to replace the
pastor. No confidence vote must be two
thirds of the committee of twelve(eight members).
The
words tore through Nathan’s mind. It was
like that realization that you were on the verge of being fired from a job you
have been so proud of for so many years.
He felt like his life might go into a tailspin. He wondered who his true friends were in the
church community and how many enemies that he has that he is not even aware
of. He always felt kind of like the Catcher in the
Rye, helping guide people, and saving them before they fell off the cliff. Now it felt like all the sheep had knives and
doubted the cognitive dissonance necessary for church leadership. Life is very complicated.
Maybe he needed to talk to Dave
White. White is a certified clinical
psychologist who specializes in depression, aging and marriage issues. He had helped the pastor 14 years ago when
his wife had a stroke that left her partially paralyzed. She was not the same woman after the
stroke. When she was in pain she was
mean and very unlikeable. Her kindness
seemed to evaporate and she was very needy for the last six months of her life,
before she had the heart attack which killed her. She had died right in her sleep next to
Nathan. He never had time to say goodbye
and it was too sad for words. While Dr. White also owned a Christian bent that
would be asking him to stay within the constriction of Christian rules he would
also have a good-hearted nature helping
him at another crisis juncture of his life.
He pondered the possibilities of what could happen with this rogue wing
of the church throwing complaints his way.
In their eyes, he probably could do no right. He liked the Leroy Niemann sports pictures in
his counseling office and his sepia colored blackbirds in the gold frame. He had a Monet-like painting of a field of azaleas and a long walkway at a beautiful resort
called The Bay Shore Inn. Azaleas
could be such beautiful flowers, a prized member of the of the genus Rhododendron.
He felt an immense sense of comfort
there on the couch where he was free to use all of his intellect and to comment
on the totality of life’s situations. He
could spew anything and not be afraid when Dave White was there. He would accept everything he said in a very
Rogerian manner, and then gently reflecting back to him words of perspective. Pastor Nathan needed that soft and kind
assurance now more than ever because life was closing in on him now and he was
beginning to feel like the time 14 years ago when his wife Wendy had the stroke
that made her so mean. Hurting people sometimes hurt others. That’s
just a fact of life. Nathan had these
re-occurring pangs of guilt, even after Wendy was gone that he had not taken
care of her enough during the last six months, that he had not listened to her
enough, had not gone far enough out of himself into her chaotic world. Dave White would reassure him that he was
honoring his marriage vows with Wendy by being the best husband that he could
ever be.
Pastor Nathan remained
fascinated in awe over faith’s numinous quality, that it had this ability to be
compelling but at the same time induce a great amount of fear. This fear of the unknown was not
quantifiable, not clear. He did feel in
communion with something, with something holy, something big but not easily
defined.
The literature of religious experience abounds in references
to the pains and terrors overwhelming those who have come, too suddenly, face
to face with some manifestation of the mysterium tremendum. In theological
language, this fear is due to the in-compatibility between man's egotism and
the divine purity, between man's self-aggravated separateness and the infinity
of God.
Aldous Huxley
Nathan also remembered how the late
Carl Sagan would say in interviews that mankind must be able to separate the
numinous from the religious. (Maybe that
was a subject he could peruse with Dave White.)
In his mind he knew that
human reason is incapable of providing sufficient rational grounds to justify
knowledge of whether God exists or does not.
This seemed like a more agnostic view of life. With
all the tragedy in life, how could there be a God? As Leo Buscaglia once said, “God must have a
sense of humor about the world, just look around you!”
Cognitive
dissonance continued to eat at Nathan like a bad smell in a crowd that
everybody notices but says nothing about.
God had to exist, yet he cannot.
This is the paradox. Religion
all of the sudden seemed man-made and somewhat contrived and Nathan was left in
the grips of the dissonance only to be welcomed by a very empty sense of existentialism. He
remembered his philosophy classes at Tilden College, and Professor Arthur C.
Dent’s favorite writer….The early 19th century philosopher Søren Kierkegaard is widely regarded as the father of existentialism who
believed, like Buscaglia, that every day be lived passionately and
sincerely, in spite of many strange obstacles and absurd
distractions. It was the individual who
is responsible for ascribing life its meaning and no one else. Pastor
Nathan would likely do some things that he did when situations got tough. His predilection for J.S. Bach would most
likely take over and he would starting reading Sam Keen in his easy chair. There was something about the writings of
Keen that would settle his mind. He
would avoid any books by Christopher Htichens because that would unsettle
him. It was the Toccata and Fugue in D
Minor and the Fugue in G Minor BWV 578, and of course the celebrated work of
Jesu Joy of Man’s Desire. There was
Mozart’s scintillating French Horn Concerto for Horn. He especially liked Radek Baborak and his
interpretation and performance on Number 3.
Concerto Number 3 that started
off with the numinous French Horn. He
particularly liked the version with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra with Sir
George Solti. Listening to classical music would propel him
into another world. He would be able to
get sacredly in touch with the profound, the peaceful and the numinous. Pastor would be able to get away from the
noise of the everyday world, the trivial car horns, telephone rings, the
yelling in the street and the blare of TV commercials. Oh, how our pastor hated TV commercials. Nathan knew in his heart that he could get in
touch with God and that he could act and think like a good person for the glory
of the ultimate level of morality, but his mind said “no.”
“So
whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”
1 Corinthians
10:31
The
spiritual part of the religious leader beckoned to him with irreducible
complexity. How could molecules begin
forming and multiplying into DNA or RNA or any of the basic building blocks of
life? This seemed to be the central
question. How could non-life just
spontaneously combine into some sort of life and molecules that replicate
themselves. Was God the first
mover? If there was a first mover, who
created the first mover? Does the
universe play games with cause and effject so humans cannot understand? Why did Einstein believe in God? These thoughts could be very troubling but
were indeed fascinating at the same time.
Was the tempestuous logic necessary to side with science necessary, or
do we throw up our hands and say that God did it? There appeared no way to amalgamate science
and religion. They seem to be like oil
and water. As the flock was threatening
a mutiny on the ship, Pastor Nathan felt a strange sense of sorrow for the
apparent ignorance and anger of the masses.
He felt he had the responsibility to give them hope and a sense of trust
in the future in any way he could muster it.
This was not going to be an easy journey. As a matter of fact, it would be painful
perhaps beyond thresholds he has experienced before.
He felt an
acute responsibility to give the flock direction, to be that grounding force of
spirituality, that ever-solid rock and foundation for positive thinking. Some in the flock had lost their way like
Dave Navison, who left the church for the Church of Scientology. He felt that he was making some headway a
couple of years ago with Dave, until he decided to head off to California and
join an L. Ron Hubbard group in the
Glendale area. Eight months later, Dave
was dead. Pastor Nathan started to
think how vulnerable people are when they are not reasoned into something. They can be manipulated every which way. Scientology
apparently asserts that people have hidden abilities which have not yet been
fully realized and is able to swoop in and grab people’s souls like they were a
business commodity. It is
believed that increased spiritual awareness and physical benefits are
accomplished through counseling sessions referred to as auditing. What is auditing anyway? It sounds so mechanical and not personal at
all. Through auditing, it is said that people can
solve their problems and free themselves of what are called engrams. Pastor Nathan thought about the crazy faith
system’s utopian aim to "clear the planet", a world in which everyone
has cleared themselves of their engrams.
There is nothing scientific, it seemed, about scientology which is
apparently the ultimate irony. He would
always hate Scientology with a passion because of the terrible things, the
irreversible things it did to his friend and church member Dave Navison who
took a switch blade out to the desert and slit his own throat. How truly tragic that a belief system could
lead to suicide? The worse problem is
that Dave’s suicide also led to the suicide of his son Ryan. Ryan was 16 and didn’t understand why his
Dad(his idol) would take his own life.
Two weeks later, Ryan was dead…a true victim of suicide contagion, an
extremely dangerous demon indeed. He thought about how a belief system could
lead to a contagion and how it could spread like wild fire. He read in the encyclopedia about how
42-percent of successful suicides were caused by this evil contagion . There was a pernicious and irrational thing
going on that could not be completely articulated, but the cause was a belief
system. God may be the problem. Poor Dave Navison.
Fred
Kramer, another member of the congregation, was almost the polar opposite of
someone who could be falling for such spiritual garbage. He played guitar once in awhile at church,
but most interesting were his secular songs like “Nature is Here,” “Our Love is Metaphysical,” “You Brought Song
into My Life,” and “Warm Embrace.”
Fred’s songs assured Pastor Nathan that was a wealth of music outside
the realm of the church that could be connected to, that there was spirituality
all over the place literally. In
“MetaPhysical” Fred would talk about
“loving each other in the middle of our hearts.” These were lyrics that only Fred could
conjure up in his loving and compassionate way. If there was anybody he could trust in the
middle of this church controversy it was Fred, because Fred was wonderful and
accepting. Mike Tarnicle would be
another person he could trust. He grew
up in New England and loved beer and clam chowder. They would have coffee at Starbucks once in
awhile to talk about the meaning of life and all of that great stuff. Mike was also a guitar player who played
with the great Wanda Houston in college and had a great and wonderful singer/
idol named Mavis Staples. He once met
Staples at a concert many years ago and she said it’s great when you sing because
you “make the world a better place.”
He even wrote a song about that, a simple chording version on his guitar
called “A Better Place.” Mike Tarnicle
was that common sense guy, with a rock solid foundation based on reality. He would also be good to consult during this
time of trouble and turbulence. Mike and
Pastor Nathan would also talk about their favorite business motivators like
Harvey Mc Kay, Stephen Covey and Brian Tracy.
Mike was the manager of a cable company call center in Wisconsin for
many years and was an expert at customer service and treated each person he met
with great respect. They would also
talk about their favorite actors like Dustin Hoffman, Olivier, Angelica Huston,
Sean Penn and Glenn Close. They both
shared a favorite comedian. His name is
Robin Williams.
Pastor
thought about how Dr. Wayne Dyer had motivated him early on in life with books
like: “Your Erroneous Zones” and “Pulling Your Own Strings.” Now
he was beginning to look like a tragic caricature of himself. He appeared to be pandering to the masses
without sharing any intellectual honesty. Too much of the message was tuning out all
negative thoughts and thinking only positive thoughts, which seemed to
oversimplify life which was more nuanced.
Sometimes feeling depressed temporarily
is the most realistic and what Dyer is selling us is false hope. Does he know this at some deep level or is
there a level of self-delusion? If so,
how deep does the self-delusion go? He
was beginning to see Dyer more as a salesman than someone who wants to truly
help people. He saw a Youtube video of
Deepak Chopra talking to Richard Dawkins and Dawkins expressing how Chopra had
“hijacked quantum physics.” Chopra, too,
was now looking like a scam artist
instead of someone truly out to help people in need.
Maybe Willy
Sunder was right. It could be more moral
to have doubts and intellectual honesty.
Was it better to be humble and to use the scientific method to
understand the world or to wallow in group spirituality speak? Suddenly he thought of religion as arrogant
and somewhat bombastic, as a sorry attempt to explain anything meaningful. Was
religion just producing incantations for a brainwashing purpose? What was the difference between his local
church and a cult? Was religion putting
ideations forward that are new and challenging or just replaying the old ideas
over and over and over again? He couldn’t understand why everyone was
nodding their head but didn’t quite know the answer. They pretended to know but maybe they didn’t
really know at all. Suddenly religion
seemed too glittery, an amalgamation of smoke and mirrors meant to tantalize
the masses, the opiate therein meant to honor tradition and only tradition,
responsive to trepidation not truth, answering to shared lies instead of hidden
fears. It was everyone lying. Why can’t we be positive without God?
Pastor Nathan
had flashbacks of thoughts about when Carl Ottum(another very conservative
member of the church) said he had no backbone.
He berated him for close to twenty minutes saying that he was too
laidback to lead a church and that it was a joke that he got into any
leadership position. He said that “being
a nice guy” was not enough, that he had to have a moral fiber, a backbone built
on the word of Christ. It was like this
big secret and the only one not knowing was the pastor.
Repentance
In was a warm March, warmer than it had been
in the last 100 years. The past two weeks, the temperature was hovering in the
mid-70’s and the normal high was closer to 40.
It may, in fact, be some partial evidence for global warming, which most
of the church didn’t want to believe.
Sunday March 4th, 2012 was a meeting called “Repentance.” There was to be a panel of church leaders
asking questions to the pastor and then making a decision on whether or not he
should be expelled from the church. Someone had put a pernicious and partially
misspelled poem in the pastor’s mailbox recently telling him to repent or he
would go to hell. The pastor was
starting to get nervous about the meeting to which he was called by seven members
of the church board. These people were
serious as a heart attack. It
was three months since he found that frightening letter in the parking lot and
now the agenda items were there for all to see.
The members were concerned that the pastor has “humanistic tendencies
which are dangerous for the future of the church.” The bullet points listed for the meeting
were:
·
He listens to indie bands like on his
Walkman. He has freethinking tendencies
and sometimes does not have respect for church rules. We believe that he may be ultimately
dangerous. Some of these bands may have
demonic origins which church goers should shun.
·
Pastor had a failed marriage 20 years ago which
does not model a positive lifestyle.
·
Pastor seemingly overly empathetic/sympatheic
with gay and lesbian issues and was seen protesting at several LGBT
demonstrations. This is totally
unacceptable. There is no evidence that he is gay, but this must be stopped
immediately. He MUST live within the
politically correct rules of the church.
·
Pastor does not mention enough from scripture,
seems to follow his own rules too much during sermons. His touchy-feely love stuff doesn’t do
anything for our more serious members.
Rumor has it that he may be trying more risky material based on Wayne
Dyer, Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson and some of the new age
profiteers.
·
Some sermons contain inappropriate material such
as quotes from non-believers like Christopher Hitchens, Neil DeGrasse Tyson,
Bill Nye and Richard Dawkins. One of
his Bible studies centered on the universe and Carl Sagan. All members of this church do not believe in
evolution or this wacky outer space stuff.
There is no concrete evidence that the Earth is more than 10-thousand
years old. Someone must have created
us. Evolution does not make sense. How
can non-life spring to life? Pastor
Nathan’s attitude is ultimately the
attitude of a doubter, not a positive
person with hope and faith and that is quite sad and unfortunate.
·
Pastor was also overheard making derisive
comments about Fox News in one of his meetings.
We feel that some of his sloppy political comments are not always
conducive the atmosphere of a church environment. He
was also overheard making a derisive comment about 7 year-old Holly Everson, who was playing
special music last month. He said
that “the poor girl was off-key.” How
despicable!
The
chairs were aligned perfectly in the conference room A. Mr. Everson was sitting a long rectangular
table up front beneath the large picture of Jesus Christ. The room was antiseptic, recently cleaned as
a matter of fact. Eugene Everson
opens up the conversation.
“Do you
know why you are here?” states
Everson. In rather subtly lambastic
undertones, Everson probes further,
“You are here so we can determine your long-term fitness for the
job. We have some concerns that you are
not fit. Especially troubling, and many
would agree, is that you have these free-thinking tendencies that upset the flock
so to speak. As a pastor you are not
always free to speak your mind and you must be very judicious and tactful in
how you present yourself. We have a
concern that you are falling away from the expected professionalism needed in
this office. This is a very tough job,
and sometimes we’re concerned that you are not the best fit for the job. Do you understand?”
Pastor
Nathan carries only one thing with him and that is a copy of “The Prophet” by
Kahlil Gibran.
I have my books
And my poetry to protect me;
I am shielded in my armor.
And my poetry to protect me;
I am shielded in my armor.
Simon and Garfunkel
The
pastor looked at the members at the table.
There was Dave Denning (the word carver), Thomas Steinbrenner(the lawyer), Charles Biehl(the reformed alcoholic and
member of the Stephen Ministry), Phil Connelly(the car dealer on Monteith
Street), Bernice Benke(the local
politician), and the Gladys Smith(the librarian) and Chris Bielke( the music
director).
Nathan
states to the committee, “It is absolutely imperative, as you and I understand,
that I act out of love instead of vengeance or hate when executing the duties
of this office. A good book by Kahlil
Gibran has a lot to say about the power of love across many contexts, including
the one we exist in now. Pastor reads
aloud from “The Prophet.”
He threshes you to make
you naked.
He sifts you to free you
from your husks.
He grinds you to
whiteness.
He kneads you until you
are pliant;
And then he assigns you
to his sacred bread for God’s sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.
All these things shall
love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in
that knowledge become a
fragment of Life’s heart.
“During your interrogation of me today, all I
ask is that you treat me as Christ would.
That’s all I’m asking,” states Nathan.
The car dealer’s eyes light up before he speaks,
“There you go with the weird shit again.
This is the example of the problem we have with you sometimes. You veer into such strange directions. I sometimes think you need some psychological
help. We just think that some of the
church members are comfortable to a certain degree but not comfortable with
these strange new directions you sometimes take us in. This Kale Gibbons guy
you quote all the time, why him and not the word of God from our Bible? ”
Pastor
Nathan, “I’m far from having a prosecutorial complex, but it does appear that I
face some agendas here. What is wrong
with quoting Kahlil Gibran once in awhile?
Mrs. Benke
chimes in, “Because he is a Muslim or something like that, and we don’t that
kind of thinking around here, that’s for sure.
I get enough of that crap from the communist guy who works at Decker’s
Grocery Mart. For the love of
God!”
The preacher
retorts, “It’s precisely for that reason that I preach to you guys each Sunday,
so that I may most accurately reflect the word and the world of God. This may bother some of you, but Sigmund
Freud once said something about the purpose of life being ‘to love and to
work.’ If you don’t mind I would like to read a passage from ‘The
Prophet’ that underlines the importance of being in love with what you work and
what you love.”
It is to weave the cloth with threads
drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear the cloth.
It is to build a house with affection,
even as if our beloved where to dwell in that house.
It is to sow seeds with tenderness and
reap the harvest with joy, even as if
your beloved where to eat the fruit.
It is to charge all things you fashion
with a breath of your own spirit.
And it is to know that all of the
blessed dead are standing about you and watching.
Pastor retorts, “It is for this purpose that I
talk every Sunday to the people. I wish
to bring peace and comfort to the masses, to transform their thinking into the
thinking like Christ did. I want to
teach peace, and not the divisive kind of talk that I’m hearing now,
frankly. I think that people should be
respectful that I have a genuine desire to help those in need and that I do the
best to encourage people in their lives
and not to pick on the little stuff. “
“Well you
talk a good talk, just like that Obama creep.
All talk. What matters is your
performance here, and it is sadly lacking in my opinion,” chimed in Mr.
Everson. “We will have a vote and we
will see you next Wednesday night, OK?” “OK.” Stated Nathan.
As Nathan
left the room, not one person made eye contact. He left out the side door and closed the
door very carefully behind him. He
climbed into his Toyota Prius and heard the slamming of doors in the
distance. The radio station was on
Wisconsin Public Radio and some person was talking about how plywood was
made. Being thoroughly bored by that
right away, Nathan turned the radio off
and preferred to be surrounded by the silence of his own thoughts and peace
with God. He glanced over to the
passenger seat and saw that his GPS was on the floor. He decided to leave it there because it
always seems to come off the inside of the windshield and the suction cup
didn’t work very well at all. Just to
the edge of the seat there was a pink post-it note. He did not use pink post-it notes and found
this rather odd. It was written in blue
pen…
Meet me at Starbucks I have some
questions. C.H.
Wow is that
strange, thought Nathan. He had
remembered how he and his friend Tim had had some interesting discussions at
Starbucks about abiding in Jesus’s love and what Christ said about
patience. He had forgotten about those
discussions as they were five years ago already, but remembered a general sense
of satisfaction about helping Tim at a critical time of his life, as he was
battling addiction issues. Maybe this C.H. was a friend of Tim’s or
something or a husband of a church member he was failing to remember. It was odd that someone would leave a note in
his car like this. He thought he had
locked his Prius before coming to the meeting. Starbucks was next to Highway 41 which was
close to the road home, so he rationalized that he needed a cup of coffee after
the stress of the day.
As he
entered the Starbucks, he noticed a fairly crowded scene and Yusuf Islam music
playing over the speakers. The song
was “Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood”, the
song recorded by Nina Simone and Elvis Costello and many others. There were students with laptops, a man with
a goatee in his mid-50’s looking very professorial, and a couple of rough
looking young people looking like they were fresh from an Occupy Wall Street
protest. One of the young people had a
sword on his forearm and the other had a ring through his lip donning a
sweatshirt with a skull on it. They
appeared to be angry about some political issue. For the most part the scene was peaceful and
the smell of caramel coffee and of grounding beans provided an excellent olfactory
experience. As his
eyes turned to the right side of the room, there was only one chair left. A thin Afro-American woman sat on one side
and had a lap top on the table. His
eyes met hers and they were such warm eyes.
One table down was a man in his
thirties with sunglasses and a white sports coat and no tie. “Anyone sitting here?” “No.” said the proper looking man, who
reached for his coffee. He greeted him
by saying “Namaste.” “Namaste,” replied our main character.
“My name is Christopher.” Chills crept up Nathan’s spine as a fire would climb up a dry pine tree. “You’re CH?” “Yes, I am,” gracefully came from his lips. His welcoming eyes looked right at him, stating, “We are the way, the hope and the life. You had a tough meeting back there. There are some folks who don’t understand you and believe that you are trying to trick them. I know that to be far from the truth.” Nathan was starting to get scared. Why would a man he doesn’t even know be following him? “Were you tailing me from the meeting? You left that note to screw with me didn’t you? I don’t need this today!” Nathan is now raising his voice and the guy with the tattoo is looking in his direction with some anger. “Calm down. I’m not here to hurt you but to empathize with you and to assure you that I’m always with you, more so in times of trouble.” The mysterious person went on describing Nathan’s own life to him from childhood and in less than two minutes he was driven to tears. A Starbucks employee came by and said, “Is this man bothering you sir?” He shook his head no.
“My name is Christopher.” Chills crept up Nathan’s spine as a fire would climb up a dry pine tree. “You’re CH?” “Yes, I am,” gracefully came from his lips. His welcoming eyes looked right at him, stating, “We are the way, the hope and the life. You had a tough meeting back there. There are some folks who don’t understand you and believe that you are trying to trick them. I know that to be far from the truth.” Nathan was starting to get scared. Why would a man he doesn’t even know be following him? “Were you tailing me from the meeting? You left that note to screw with me didn’t you? I don’t need this today!” Nathan is now raising his voice and the guy with the tattoo is looking in his direction with some anger. “Calm down. I’m not here to hurt you but to empathize with you and to assure you that I’m always with you, more so in times of trouble.” The mysterious person went on describing Nathan’s own life to him from childhood and in less than two minutes he was driven to tears. A Starbucks employee came by and said, “Is this man bothering you sir?” He shook his head no.
Another deep chill came down Nathan’s spine as
he noticed CH to be the ghost of Christopher Hitchens. Nobody seemed to notice at Starbucks
surprisingly. "Why would you look like Christopher Hitchens?"
"There are a number of reasons of why I would portray myself
to you in this fashion." "But you could have been a gray
and bearded guy or somebody looking like Charles Colson. Why this
image??" Compassion, equality, the magic of music and peace
and love for starters. I also wanted to challenge your traditional
conceptions of God, to open up your mind a little. I could have come as
Pat Robertson, Barack Obama, Richard Dawkins, Mother Theresa or Carl Sagan.
Would that have been as good? I think NOT.
Don’t worry, to the rest of the people in here I appear to be a college
professor in my late 50’s. No worries
Nathan."
The voice was certainly that of
a young Chris Hitchens in all its urgency and possibly it’s Trotsky-like
exuberance and liberalism. “I’m using
Chris’s body to help you have a revelation that spirituality is infinitely
abstract. Even though Christopher was an
atheist, I had great love for him and he has made it into my heaven. What others thought of him is not an
issue. What I think of him is the only
issue.”
“Much like
Chris faced, you face a great spiritual crisis. You have people in your church who believe
you are doing the wrong thing. The key
is to try to find a way to win them on your side. The true miracle that could be done here is
to win them all to your side. This is
why Chris loved to debate the God question, because he had such a great love
for mankind that he was out to convince souls one at a time to use reason to
solve human problems. He actually was on
the right track. You may not understand
this huge irony, but I loved Christopher dearly even though he didn’t believe.
“ said the force inside Mr. HItchen’s body.
“I am totally
blown away by all of this. So God is a
neo-atheist??” Nathan cannot believe he
is asking this. The ghost replies, “It’s not quite that simple young man. I believe there are many ways to judge a
man’s soul and it’s not for man to judge man but for God to judge man. You must start a new conversation Nathan
about what is good, what is beautiful, what is noble, what is pure and what is
true. Why is that important? Because that is the only conversation worth
having. Hopefully truth, love and wisdom
will come your way through this process.”
“What do you
think of the evolution/creation debate?
There are some hard-core websites like ‘Answers in Genesis’ who are
trying to make people disagree with Darwinism.
Such people also are concerned about something called Social
Darwinism. Mr. Hitchens responds, “Ah,
Social Darwinism. Very interesting twist
of meaning.” God pulled out a piece of
paper from his coat pocket. It was a
copy of a description of this mysterious term.
Social Darwinism is generally understood to
use the concepts of struggle for existence and survival of the
fittest to justify social policies which make no
distinction between those able to support themselves and those unable to
support themselves. Many such views
stress competition between individuals in laissez-faire capitalism; but the ideology
has also motivated ideas of eugenics,scientific racism, imperialism, fascism, Nazism and struggle between national or racial groups.
Opponents of evolution theory
have often maintained that social Darwinism is a logical entailment of a belief
in evolutionary theory, while biologists and historians maintain that it is
rather a perversion of Darwin's ideas. While most
scholars recognize the historical link between Darwin's theory and forms of
social Darwinism, they also maintain that social Darwinism is not a necessary
consequence of the principles of biological evolution and that
using biological evolution as a justification for policies of inequality
amounts to committing the naturalistic fallacy.
The name Social Darwinism is a
modern name given to the various theories of society that emerged in England
and the United States in the 1870s, which, it is alleged, sought to apply
biological concepts to sociology and politics. The term social Darwinism gained
widespread currency when used to oppose these earlier concepts. Today, because
of the negative connotations of the theory of social Darwinism, especially
after the atrocities of the Second World War (including
the Holocaust) few people would describe
themselves as Social Darwinists and the term is generally seen as pejorative.
“This is how
the people on the far-right distort Charles Darwin. Darwin was an honest and great man. The term Social Darwinism is a way to put
Darwin’s name in a more negative light.
Evolution is true, but I provided the spark. Do you think that DNA and RNA could just
appear without any help? The universe
is far more complex than your limited-dimension understanding. People like Einstein and Stephen Hawking have
gotten closer to my miracle that I’ve created but just inches further on a
great highway of understanding. There
are many more treasures that I have left for human beings to unlock on the long
and winding road of questions. Science
has just begun to unlock the mysteries”
“Why have you
come Christopher? Are you God?” The man in the dark blue shirt and white
jacket just stared into his eyes again and the pastor was transfixed with the
compassion in his eyes and his seemingly physical manifestation and
demonstration of Namaste. “I have some questions
for you. I want to ask you about the
world, how it was made, who created the big-bang, why was I born now, why did you create human
beings?” There were so many questions,
pastor was feeling manic trying to get them all out in a coherent manner. “Was Jesus a real person?” The mysterious man replied, “Yes, he was very human. I was so saddened when he asked why I had
forsaken him. At that point, my love for
him and the human race could not have been greater. The crucifixion was the saddest day for me
because I know how much Jesus loves me.
The people clearly did not have any idea what they were doing when they
killed my boy. They had no fricking
idea. I’m getting ready to send another
person out to the world and she is a girl.
Maybe human kind will get the message this time.“
“You’re going
to send a woman to die?” replied a
stunned Nathan. “Not necessarily. We’ll see how it plays out. She may end up at a mental hospital. There are a lot of ways it could play
out. I plan for my daughter to be
autistic and capable of savant skills that are truly out of this world. We’ll let the world judge whether it is a
miracle or if it is just brain chemistry.
My daughter Sandra will help human beings understand as she will write a
new version of the Bible. She will be
persecuted and I will be with her through her pain. She will help people stretch the definition
of spirituality beyond conventional thinking, far beyond conventional
thinking. This will be a test of how
compassionate the masses can be to someone who is far different than
themselves. Acceptance of Sandra is
somewhat analogous to acceptance of the truth of me. Does that help you understand to a somewhat
greater degree ? I want you to
understand the methods of my madness so that you can tell others to not be
afraid. Let your heart not be troubled,
for I am near, closer than you think..”
“This is so
hard to take in,” said a stunned Nathan.
“In all of my training for the ministry,
in all of my Bible study classes, in all of my sermons, I’ve never heard
of something as abstract as this. This
takes everything to a new level. This is
truly original and creative. So, how
did you create DNA? It cannot just form
by itself.” “Good question Nathan,”
responded God. The white jacketed
prophet continues, “Life was formed through spans of time which are impossible
for human beings to conceive. Humans
tend to look at things far too concretely.”
“What about Michael Behe’s concept of ‘irreducible complexity?’”
“Great
question Nathan. You’re starting to
think at a deeper level. I’m familiar
with the debate regarding bacterial flagellum and complexity of the eye. I know about Michael Behe and his debates
with scientists, including Lawrence Krauss.
The irreducible complexity of
essential cellular structures
have been rejected by the vast majority of the scientific community, I
agree that Behe is assuming a lot and the true humble and good way to achieve
knowledge for human beings is science and not making up stuff. What humans don’t realize is that there is a
great way to blend science and spirituality, and that the two are far from
being mutually exclusive. Even
modern-day atheists have a point. Their
skepticism is actually a compliment to me because they are digging deeper for
the answers. If you look up atheism in
the dictionary you get something similar the following: ‘Atheists tend
to be skeptical of supernatural claims, citing a lack of empirical evidence for deities.
Rationales for not believing in any deity include the problem of evil, the argument from inconsistent
revelations, and the argument
from non-belief. Other arguments for atheism range from the philosophical to
the social to the historical. Although some atheists have adopted secular philosophies, there is no one
ideology or set of behaviors to which all atheists adhere. Many atheists hold
that atheism is a more parsimonious worldview than theism, and therefore
the burden of proof lies not on
the atheist to disprove the existence of God, but on the theist to provide a
rationale for theism.’ When you look at
that view in total, it is very humble.
Atheists don’t assume more than they actually know. They just have a problem taking the leap of
faith, which I am highly empathetic towards.
An atheist who is a good person in many ways is better than the
unethical person who uses religion to manipulate the masses. Jesus never intended to manipulate the masses
in this way. Karl Marx said religion is
the ‘opiate of the masses.’ I think that
religion/spirituality should be a strong wake up call, just the opposite. If you think what Christ stood for, he was
radically bold and faced much criticism.
A lot of people overreact on the secular side as well, laughing at the
religious for even thinking that there could be something more. Mother Theresa, for her cognitive level, was
able to do so many good things and people criticized her including some unfair
shots from Mr. Hitchens when he was alive.”
The
man with the tattoo on his arm is beginning to stare at the two, and then makes
a joke about the old professor guy that
looks like he is “about to keel over.”
Hitchens ignores the comments and is concentrating on Nathan. “As long as you care with your whole heart
and you care about each and every human being, then you are in step with my
plan. I’ve given humans freedom of
choice just to make it a little bit more interesting. God is much more abstract than any living
person can conceptualize. Just by being
human, you are my miracle. You have to
believe that in your heart. I know there
is a lot in Luke 21 about the end of the world and everything, but man has the
power to make it a better world.
Armegeddon does not have to happen.
I repeat, Armegeddon does not
have to happen. That is perhaps the
biggest falsehood of my teaching. The
allusions of Armegeddon are a reference to what could happen if humans are not
able to get their acts act together.”
Hitch stared out the window then gazed deeply into Nathan’s eyes. It was almost like he was trying to hypnotize
him. Nathan had never seen something so
strange before. Hitch starts talking,
“The eyes are the window to the soul and the truth of me are beautiful and
infinitely colorful chasms of light. You
have hopeful and faithful eyes Nathan.
That’s one reason why I’m here with you today.” Nathan was almost numb now because there was
so much coming at him. It was a like a
sensory overload, or maybe you could call it an extra-sensory overload.
Nathan
was now convinced that he was witnessing something very special. He asked the spirit, “There are so many
questions I want to ask you. I still
have deep concern over the aggressive and vindictive part of man. The ghost replied, “Human beings have so much to learn about
compassion and how to live together.
Humans are much too centered on war and revenge. All of that has to be weeded out or the human
race will not survive. Look at Carl
Sagan’s video on Youtube about ‘The Pale Blue Dot.” His thoughts are very much in line with mine
on this. Our obsession with nationalism
and our wars are nothing compared to the beauty of it all. The Earth is truly a
very small stage in a vast cosmic arena.
The Earth is where you must make your stand. I will give you great words and articulation
to help you in your battle for good.
Please trust me Nathan that I can help you. I will increase your verbal intelligence
five-fold and you will go to the pulpit with your new creative insights. I will tell you now that your new-found power
of intellect may scare you. It will be
a brave act and some in your congregation will think you’re crazy and may even
want to kill you for the immense good that emanates from your wellbeing. You can do it Nathan, you can do it.”
Suddenly
this intellectual visage was gone and in the place of the strong intellectual
spirit was the face of an old man perhaps in his 80’s. Brief case at his side, he looked like a
retired college professor who is lost.
Nathan got out of his seat and went out the door of Starbucks. He glanced back just once and then saw
someone who looked exactly like Mother Theresa, giving him a Namaste sign and
wishing him good luck. Nathan thought to
himself, “Wow, this the first ghost I’ve ever seen. I must be hallucinating. What can all of this mean? “ Nathan’s hands were shaking as he grabbed
the handle of his car door. He glanced
back again and the man with the tattoo was staring at him and shaking his
head. Nathan suddenly felt a tinge of
fear and jumped into his car and drove off.
It wasn’t for five or ten minutes that he realized he never paid for his
coffee. He was probably lucky that the
man with the large tattoo didn’t beat him up.
The Next Sermon
The congregation
packed the church. People were
talking. There was a woman in the
corner talking about Robin Gibb of the Bee Gees passing away of cancer and
whether the Lord wanted to have him home early.
To Nathan colon cancer was not a friendly way of exiting the world. I wonder what CH would think about this? Nathan felt this compulsion to be more
precise with his sermons, to use the words that would most precisely describe
his thoughts and to express God’s word through much more precise
articulation. It was almost an obsession to use exactly the
right words to communicate to the flock, he thought.
The
Lord says he loves all of his children.
You are all his children.
Bernice you are 92 and you are his child. Raymond you are a young 17 and you are also a
child to God. He deeply cares about you
more than you would ever know. I have
had a period of deep consternation, reflection and revelation over this past
week. My epiphany of sorts has to do
with listening even closer to the congregation and ensuring that minor things
do not divide us. As you know, there are
some people in this church who believe that I have shortcomings which are
getting away from the true teachings of God.
Perhaps the compatibility is not
perfect and that there would be a more perfect minister, or perhaps the Lord
God could choose a more imperfect one like myself to give you his word. There is a lot of responsibility inherent in
leading with the spirit, making the truth of God known and showing his true
compassion to the world. That’s almost
too much responsibility isn’t it? I plan to make some changes around here. I feel I’ve alienated some members of the
church, especially those who cling to right-wing politics. My goal is to win you over to make you feel
more comfortable with me that God doesn’t care about where you are on the
political spectrum and who you vote for.
He is much deeper than siding with a person based on if they vote for
Walker or Barrett, for Obama/Biden or for Romney/Ryan. As a matter of fact, God is upset about the
political divide in this country and is quite sad that people are divided over
relatively superficial things. God is
infinitely kind and does not worry over such matters. He is strictly concerned with matters of the
human heart and its potential goodness and he gives us a plethora of choices so
that we can have a sense of free will during our short lifetimes. That is God’s infinitely benevolent gift to
us. He is serious about his gifts that
he gives and he like us knows that earthly gifts do not last long and it is love
that lasts forever. As it is said in
the Bible, in 1 Corinthians 13:13 “Three
things will last forever--faith, hope, and love--and the greatest of these is
love. “ This is what it’s all
about folks!
I’m
here to say that I’ve had a special and personal talk with God and he says to
not have your heart be troubled, that there are beautiful wonders that wait for
those who love him. It is true and I’ve
have seen it with mine own eyes. In Luke
21 it says that ‘for I will give you the right
words and such wisdom that none of your opponents will be able to defeat
you. God wants creative cooperation
instead of constant conflict. God told
me that we argue too much over the little things and we don’t concentrate on the
big things. We are not having the
important conversations with our wives, our sons, our daughters, our nephews,
nieces, brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers. I want you do think in terms of communicating
as much love and meaning in each and every conversation you have. God
also told me that we have a secret love within us that if uncovered, leads to
an infinite treasure of connection and understanding with your fellow human
beings. We all have the key. We just need to figure out how to open the
treasures. God hopes that we look in the
right places for opening up this love.
When the atheist scientist Carl Sagan was very sick with cancer, in his
final day, he talked at the hospital with one of his best friends, Stephen J.
Gould, and the topic was not science or truth.
It was about love. It is all
about caring for our brothers and sisters and taking care of the ones we
love. If you are married, hold the one
you love tonight and tell him or her that you are there for them and that they
must trust that your love is real and your love is strong and your love comes
from an infinite reservoir, and that is agape, the love of God, the ultimate
love of them all. I want you all to be in the joyful effort of
passion that is that wide-eyed amazement that a child of six may have. Build your own spiritual cathedrals. Know that there is great joy to be had in
this life. Look at the night sky and the
wonderful sky and the stars and see the infinity of God. I know
a landscape artist named Dewitt Jones.
Dewitt sees the glass half-full.
He is in the business of seeing and building extraordinary visions. Don’t settle for less than the extraordinary
visions. Finding creativity in our lives
can help sustain us and to motivate us.
Creativity exists in each and every one of us. As
Dewitt says in his public speaking engagements, it’s that moment when we look
at what we see every day and look at opportunity not redundancy. It’s
that moment when we look at something ordinary and see the extraordinary. Creativity helps us fall in love with the
world, it helps us to see the love of God in all of its glory. When I was very young, my mother told me
not to look directly at the sun. Think
of the love of God like that. It’s so
powerful that to take it all in at once would be overwhelming. If we let God into our lives, and let him be
in control once in awhile we are able to capture that innocence again that we
had when we were six years old, when we were fixated by a sunset, when we gazed
at the miracle of a blade of grass, when we looked intensely at our mother’s or
father’s loving eyes. Have courage to
have passion and vision. We need to have
the courage to dramatically change the ordinary to the extraordinary.
I’m also here today to say that there is no
hell. Human beings make their own hell
sometimes, but hell fire and brimstone fantasies are false. Turn to love and know that love is good. Robert Ingersoll once said that the myth of hell represents "all the meanness, all the
revenge, all the selfishness, all the cruelty, all the hatred, all the infamy
of which the heart of man is capable."
To focus on putting others into hell is not what Jesus wants us to
do. God has spoken to me. Believe me that your good behavior will be
rewarded and living the moral and ethical life has infinite meaning. Love
is truly the answer and once you turn to God, you never
have to be alone. The Bible says, “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck,
write them on the tablet of your heart.”
I have seen God and he came to
me in human form. I will not give too
much more information but he told me that our obsession with
nationalism and our wars are nothing compared to the beauty of it all. He told me that the Earth is truly a very
small but infinitely important stage in a vast cosmic arena. The Earth is where we must make our
stand. He is giving me great words and articulation
to help me in the battle for the good. He
said it would be a brave act and some in the congregation will think I’m crazy
and may even want to kill me. I will
tell you that my finite life is worth close to nothing compared to the great
infinity of love and understanding represented by our great Lord and Jesus
Christ. Yet, the magical contradiction
or paradox is that Jesus sees infinite love potential in ALL of us. Amen.
There were many confused looks in the
congregation. Bernice is making the
sign of the cross in the front row and saying, “Praise Jesus. I have seen the Lord!” The people who were the most angry seemed
to be the people with extreme right-wing politics, giving very sour and
disapproving looks. One could be heard
muttering, “We’re gonna fire that faggot’s ass!” He had done it. He had shared it all, and now only the grace
of God could save him. He felt like a
crazy man.
All night long in his study at home,
surrounded by all of those scholarly books, he looked up the definitions of
agnostic and atheist in Wikipedia, reading them and re-reading them as he would
a Bible text. He also picked up a book
of essays by the late Christopher Hitchens and was fascinated by one that focused in on the great minds who were
educated at Cambridge, Oxford and Trinity College. He was fascinated by debates that went on in
the 18th century about the divide between science and literature and
Nathan was wondering if there were parallels with his obsession with the divide
between science and religion. Bibliotherapy is what the pastor needed right
now, more than ever. During tense times
he would read and that would be that elixir that made focusing in on the
important issues somewhat easier. It
also seemed to make it more manageable to cogently understand the complexity of
life’s challenges and problems.
It was now four days later and our
good pastor was in the Target store in his hometown. Shopping would sometimes take Nathan’s mind
off of the most disturbing questions in his life. Looking at items in a store could be very
relaxing (with the soft music playing in
the background, probably some consumer-tested sound that would relax customers
and got them in a spending mood.) As he
usually did, he came out with something even though browsing was a definite
possibility coming into the store. A
spring shirt and a new CD from Joan Armatrading. At least the purchase didn’t exceed 40
dollars. As he was exiting the store
he caught a man’s eyes near the exit door on the right, near the coffee shop. They were the most compassionate and loving
eyes he has ever seen. The strange thing
about the man was that he had a pile of leaves in the empty chair next to him
and he seemed to be playing with them in strange repetitive fashion, almost
like a four year-old would pick them up and drop them on the seat, all the time
with concentration on the leaves. The
man looked up again. Pastor Nathan
thought, “Oh no, it’s Leo
Buscaglia. Here we go again!”
Buscaglia
spoke in mostly short sentences but would also unleash very long sentences that
were hard to comprehend sometimes. “I
command you to go forth and produce a miracle.
Make these people truly believe in you and you have won.” The Leo ghost handed Nathan a slip of paper
with several general goals about
life. He said, here, go forth and teach
this:
1.
Embrace
life whole: The
Sacred or Divine, the Precious and Profound, are made evident, not only in the
extraordinary events of our lives, but in the simple and the everyday;
The best way to live is to strive to embrace life fully - engaging our
spirits with all of the highs and lows life naturally brings.
2.
Potential
for goodness: There
is goodness in each of us. It can be helped to grow in communities of mutual
love, acceptance, and support.
3.
There
is no complete answer: The
universe is too grand to be encompassed in any one perspective or truth.
Freedom of belief and diversity of perspective are thus to be treasured and
encouraged.
4.
Seek
relationship: Relationship
between us and with other beings is our primary teacher of how to be fully
human. Through the support and the challenges of communication and interchange,
we grow toward our potential.
5.
That
which is sacred everywhere: The
sacred in life is everywhere, including within each of us. It emerges in
relationship and is most evident in our love. In striving to bring forth the
sacred wherever it may be found, we serve all beings.
6.
Wisdom
is everywhere: Wisdom
has been uncovered by many people in many different times and traditions. The
wise person searches broadly and is open to many influences.
7.
We are
one: We are interconnected
and interdependent beings - part of a greater unity of which we are usually
unaware. We must seek an appreciation of our deep interdependence and
relatedness.
8.
Justice: We are obligated by our unity and our love to
work for a more just world where each person has an opportunity to fulfill
their potential.